24 Family Mediation
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4. What can I use mediation for?
5. At what stage can I use mediation?
6. What if my partner is violent or threatening?
Mediators must make sure that you and your partner feel safe. So the mediator will check with each of you separately before and during mediation to see whether there is a problem of violence or abuse.
If you are worried about your safety or your children’s safety, you should tell the mediator. The mediator will probably say that you should see a solicitor (if you have not already done so). If you need a court order to protect you from your partner, your solicitor can help you apply for one.
If you do not want your partner to know your address or phone number, you should tell the mediator. You can also ask for separate waiting areas when you come to mediation discussions.
See ‘Further help’ for names of organisations that can help you if you feel you are at risk of violence from your partner.
7. What if I don’t use mediation?
8. Do I still need a solicitor if I use mediation?
9. Is mediation the same as counselling?
10. What happens in mediation?
11. Is mediation confidential?
12. How long does mediation take?
13. What happens at the end of mediation?
14. How much does mediation cost?
This leaflet is published by the Legal Services Commission (LSC).
Leaflet Version: August 2008